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From Surviving to Surthriving: Reclaiming Your Power After Trauma

podcast press Feb 07, 2025

Breaking Free from the Addiction to Achievement – Franceska McCaughan on The Scrumptious Woman Podcast

In a world that glorifies hustle, Franceska McCaughan knows all too well the weight of being driven by achievement and external validation. On The Scrumptious Woman Podcast, Franceska shares a raw and powerful conversation about her journey from overworking to self-liberation, the impact of childhood trauma, and why true success isn’t found in endless accomplishments—but in coming home to yourself.

“There was a time I really found my self-worth in how gritty I could be. I was praised for being a successful entrepreneur, for working harder than anyone in the room. But in reality, I was outrunning the feeling of never being good enough.”

The Wake-Up Call That Changed Everything

Franceska built a wildly successful international floral business, securing contracts with luxury brands like Tiffany & Co., Chanel, JW Marriott, and Four Seasons. But when the pandemic brought her business to a halt, she was forced to sit with herself for the first time.

“I found myself in my closet for two weeks, questioning who I was. Would my friends still want to be around me if I wasn’t ‘shiny enough’? If I wasn’t achieving something? It hit me—I had been addicted to accomplishment, constantly seeking validation, constantly trying to outrun the feeling of not being enough.”

The shutdown exposed the deep-rooted patterns of survival mode she had carried since childhood. For years, she had been celebrated for her work ethic, but she began to realize that working harder wasn’t the answer—healing was.

The Hidden Impact of Childhood Trauma on Success

Many high-achievers unknowingly operate from a place of trauma responses—overworking, people-pleasing, and seeking validation through success. Franceska unpacks this in the episode, shining a light on why so many high-achieving women struggle with burnout, perfectionism, and feeling "never enough.”

“We don’t stop to question—am I actually living my fullest truth? Or am I just on autopilot, chasing something because I don’t know who I am without the gold stars?”

The shift for Franceska wasn’t about doing more—it was about unbecoming who she had to be to survive and reclaiming who she was always meant to be.

The Path to True Success: Healing & Alignment

Through Human Design, deep self-inquiry, and soul-led transformation, Franceska has rebuilt her life and business from a place of alignment—not hustle.

“This addiction to achievement isn’t who we are. It’s a coping mechanism. When we start to untangle that, we create space for real freedom.”

Ready to Rewrite Your Success Story?

๐Ÿ”ฅ Listen to Franceska’s full episode on The Scrumptious Woman Podcast here.

๐Ÿ’Ž If you’re ready to break free from survival mode, heal your unresolved trauma, and build success in full alignment with your energy—enroll in Making of the Millionairess today. Join here.

๐Ÿ“– Read Franceska’s bestselling memoir for the full story of resilience, healing, and transformation. Get it here.


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